Well uformułowany goal, a goal consistent with the following criteria.

1) put a positive
2) that is under your control
3) verifiable when it reach the
4) having an appropriate size
5) ecological

First, your goal must be successfully placed. This means that instead of saying you do not want it is better to say what you want. Saying you do not want to convey to his mind the information, which is avoided. But if telling him what to avoid, you give him any information on the site, to which aim? Is saying \"do not want to sit at home alone on Saturday night\" telling your brain what is aim? Now probably start to notice that in order to effectively communicate with the computer, which you and I wear between our ears, we must clearly, accurately and positively to express our expectations. Secondly, the achievement of that objective must remain under your control. Goals, whose implementation depends essentially on the work of other people are not well-formulated goals. If people do not behave the way you like, which certainly happens, ugrzęzłeś. It is better to focus on what YOU can do to achieve their goals and thus take responsibility for its implementation at each other. For example, instead of waiting for a girl to become your friend, it is better to think about what YOU can do to make friends with her. How do you see yourself, it is better to create your future, rather than waiting until the fate of us smile. Another criterion that should meet your goal, is the criterion of verifiability. How do you know that you achieved your goal? How do you know that the days, weeks or perhaps months, your work is not in vain? Some people reach their goals and still feel defeated. Why? Because their objectives are so vague, vague and distant, that will never be known whether they have achieved. Suppose that your goal is \"to get the practice podrywaniu girls. If you want to achieve this goal, consider what it means to get practice. Is it enough to make an appointment with 10 girls that have completed, or not? Do you have experience of this appointment may be with all the girls in the neighborhood

In order to give more practical than its goal to answer the following questions:
- How do I know that it accomplished its purpose?
- Then I will know that it accomplished its goal