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Let me give you another extreme example of the person whose number you have. It is the Mother Teresa of Calcutta. Whether you could like it, to devote his life to helping the suffering, the sick and abandoned by all? Whether you could completely get rid of his ego and work for the good of others is not dostając for no pay? Do you start to notice what has going? I showed you two extreme cases. One person morally degenerate and the second man potrafiącego renounce himself to others. What do you think makes some people are always willing to help you and others think just like you use? What determines human behavior? when I decided to become an expert in interpersonal relations is not a question haunted me. I wondered why people behave so differently. Today I am absolutely certain that the main factor determining human behavior is our emotional associations (neuroasocjacje). In other words, guided by our two opposing forces: the pleasure and pain. We are taking behavior, which we associate with pleasure, and we avoid those with whom we associate suffering. You can call it an emotional hierarchy of values, or in any way, but I want you to understand it well. This is what determines our behavior, our personal neuroasocjacje (at the level of emotional associations). Powodziowi robbers do not associate suffering from despoiling others, and a great pleasure for them are tangible .... and that is why we have such a result we have - stealing, and so offended now, people. Neuroasocjacje Mother Teresa is quite the opposite. It is a pleasure for helping others and seeing the suffering of human misery. Also, the shape neuroasocjacje the operation - a dedication to others. |