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I hear as you say, \"What the hell are thieves and Mother Teresa have in common with picking up girls?\". I must tell you that they have a great deal. Maybe not as individuals but as models to study psychology of human behavior. If you think that it is you need it you have to realize that we really are wrong. Regardless of how the goal will come ustaliłeś moments in which you will need to overcome your fear and make friends with a woman. What else is it not as a specific activity? Without taking into account the moral consequences of what you want to make are no different from anything else of Mother Teresa or flood cutthroats. The actions you make are the ONLY YOUR RESULTS NEUROASOCJACJI. I am telling you this because, as so often I meet people who have great difficulty in overcoming their fear and taking action, regardless of whether it is proposing an unknown woman, dating, or just launch regular conversation. If so how many people have moments in which even the sincere desire to offer someone the meeting, you can not break it you must understand one fundamental zasadę.TWOJE BEHAVIOR ARE YOUR RESULTS NEUROASOCJACJI. TO CHANGE YOUR BEHAVIOR YOU NEED TO CHANGE YOUR NEUROASOCJACJE Remember that every action is a result of your neuroasocjacji that once built, incidentally. I already see why the same behavior change is so difficult? If you have ever tried to change their behavior, let\'s say you decide to pick up the girls for dating and your plan is not burned out, you know what I mean. If the level of emotional pain you associate with the woman of your dreams proposing a meeting, and although the internal word STOP trying to sprain their fears that have little chance of success because you change your behavior and not the cause that produces them. I will try to explain it to you very pictorial metaphor. Imagine that you are standing on the river and you see a human being melted. Quickly jumps into the water and listening for him, but after 5 minutes you see the next one. Listening for it as well. Your pride and self-satisfaction interrupted cry melted the third man, which also pull together this enormously tiring. Notice that the fourth man, when you no longer have the strength to jump, and unfortunately you can not save him. After a while you hear the cry of a child who runs up and informs you of the hidden hole in the bridge, which falls in many people. A short walk up the river bridge and come to see that it is through this hole to fall into three people redeemed and that which does not manage to save. At this point, you realize how your actions were ineffective. It was enough to go up the river and patch the hole in the bridge, and uratowałbyś all people without the slightest effort.
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